On Thursday, the day after our 2nd awesome homeschool day, I helped Nala get ready for her morning preschool. Then she said, "I don't want to go to preschool, I want to homeschool too."
I absolutely love her coop preschool and insisted that she go. We get there and she starts acting, faking being sick. A huge frowning face, palms clasping her throat, imitation raspy voice, fists rubbing her eyes red then fingers pulling the bags of her eyes down down towards cheeks, "My... Throat... Hurts."
What could we do? I couldn't drop a sick kid off at school. Her over the top performance was dramatically convincing. She seemed in agony. But I knew she was absolutely fine a moment before! I was so pissed. And then I had a moment of almost freaking out. I turned to her teacher, "None of my kids wants to go to school anymore. I just took my son out to homeschool him and now she wants to be homeschooled too."
Her wise and gentle teacher tried to help, "Here's a tip. Don't make home fun, and then she'll want to go to school."
found these pictures on the camera.
looks like Kaio shot a ballerina photo session
Is my fun parenting creating self absorbed monsters who can't function in society?
I thought about this all day. How much of Kaio's dislike of public school has come from my attitude towards it? Like that Monday I let him skip school to catch up on rest because he came home late Sunday night from snowboarding, and I let him spend the day playing video games while I studied for a midterm. I thought I was doing the right thing at the time. But, life isn't all slopes and legos Krissee, people do have to work to survive.
I look around the world and see so many different versions of 'success' it's hard to crack the formula. It's not like a communist country, where someone tells you your perfect job; that's productive, meaningful to the fabric of society, and 'in theory' provides enough income for your happiness. Or an arranged marriage, where you know for better or worse this is the person you need to stick it out with - think about a life without all the stress of dating and finding or not finding Mr. Right? In the US we have so many options and freedoms, you can become a millionaire without graduating from college.
I need to figure out what elements of success matter to me and build our day around this. This means pondering so much more and doing more research. If anyone has any books to recommend, let me know, please!
Walker Nature Center matching tracks